The great thing about math is that it can quantify the intangibles. For example, a person’s life may be expressed in numbers. Often, these numbers are…
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When I was 36 and very single, I was hit by the narrowing of the time window to have my biological children. My first thought was I am a woman living in…
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“My neighbor is paying $80 per month for just internet. I don’t need the TV cable. Can you take it off my account? Can I get what my neighbor has?” I…
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February 2023

I felt like an imposter. After Becoming Whole was published, concerned readers emailed me for their son, daughter, brother, or sister, asking for help…
Right after Thanksgiving, I sent my dad off to an international airport alone and followed his flight online nervously for the next 20 hours until he…

December 2022

Somewhere in my thirties, I decided that I didn’t enjoy multitasking. Then in my forties, I decided I wouldn’t multitask because it wasn’t good for me…
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Every winter, the holiday season comes, and I feel my singleness more acutely than at any other time. It’s not a bad thing, but it does make me think…
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November 2022

On the first day back in Boston from Taipei, when the time was only mine again, I realized I hadn’t read anything for five weeks straight. I was…

October 2022

In October, I visited my family in Taiwan. Living with my aunts meant I was cared for in the most thoughtful way possible around the clock, which I…
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Ever since I was little, I could fall asleep anywhere. My dad told me this story that made me realize it was my secret superpower. My dad had stopped at…

September 2022

After learning about FIRE and minimalism, I’m now investigating the idea of slow living. I find it helpful to think about fast living first. That means…
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On a dating app, a man told me he was devoted to philanthropy work somewhere far, in this case, in Yemen. I had already chatted with a few men with this…
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