We come into the world alone, and we leave the world alone. But we are never quite alone. Yes, we are accompanied through life by family and friends of varying numbers, which is a nice bonus. But at minimum, we each have the company and loyalty of ourselves.
Think about your closest friends. They are selflessly looking out for your best interest, and likely you do the same for them.
But who knows you more intimately than yourself? When you’re feeling alone or adrift, know that you are two people, the regular you and the advisor. Try to step away from whatever biases you may have to be as objective as possible and support yourself with a wise voice.
That means taking the time to consider whatever options you may have in any given situation and how to take further steps based on the best advice you can give yourself. That may sound silly, but it is absolutely achievable.
Most often, we fly by the seat of our pants and make decisions haphazardly. And yet we give advice to others that is often very measured and intelligent. So why can’t we do that for ourselves? Isn't that just as valid?
I talk to myself often. Part of that is venting, part of it is because I’m the only one who will listen to all my crap, but most of it is trying to guide myself. I am looking out for me. I have my own back. I want to see me do well. I deserve a friend as caring as me.
And that is enough.